How can you tell if your relationship is “near to a cliff and is about to collapse?” I have prepared for you a list of indications by which you can determine what is occurring with your relationship. So, I divided the indications into 2 groups according to the intensity of their influence on the destruction of relationships. Group 1 – these are signs after which it will be easy to improve relationships. Group 2 – these are indications that deeper and more seriously affect the damage and restoration of relationships.
1 group of indications your relationship is altering you stopped sharing your feelings, what occurred throughout the day, your ideas communication is becoming more and more discontented the hubby began to talk little about his news and you can discover it out when he shares it with others usage kids in dispute and reveal dissatisfaction with your other half through them: “It is useless to ask papa for something, he is extremely busy”, and so on for a frank discussion, you need to tune in, prepare and seize the moment devalue each other, for instance: “you still don’t understand how,” or “enough to be creative,” and so on.
devalue each other’s plans for the future increasingly more you think that your partner is missing out on something in you and he might be looking for it on the side kisses, hugs and other affection became less there is a feeling that you are developing, and he stalls. You are different and you have various worth quarrels started to end not with reconciliation, but with anger.
2 group of indications that damage your relationship interaction just about daily life. Discussing dreams, goals, values disappeared I do not wish to go home more talk of divorce no desire to discuss, tell, alter or remedy something when there is no partner close by, you feel more satisfied collected complaints that appear impossible to forgive lately it has been constantly agonizing and uneasy in a relationship I no longer want to conserve the household, more ideas about living alone Group 1 informs us that it is time to alter something. You do not need to let things go by themselves. You can deal with this by yourself or with the assistance of a family psychologist.
group 2, in conjunction with the indications of group 1, tells us that the relationship is on the brink of collapse. It’s already tough to cope by yourself. You need to contact a trusted household counsellor.
Perverse narcissist
Moral violence, or as it is more often called now, abuse, has become a common thing in relationships. The word “abuse” translates to “violence” and “abuse”.
This is most often due to the fact that your partner has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (ADD). This pathology occurs in many people: from 1 to 8% of the total population of the planet, according to various sources.
According to the international classification of diseases DSM-V, it can be defined by the general signs of personality disorder:
– grandiose conceit
– fantasies of unlimited power or ideal love
– belief in one’s own “exclusivity”
– the need for an exaggerated expression of delight towards oneself
– the illusion of one’s own special rights
– tendency to exploit people
– lack of empathy
– jealousy and arrogance towards people
Not all people with ADD are dangerous. But for those around him, the type called “THE FIRST NARCISSIST” is dangerous. This definition was given by the French doctor of psychiatry, specialist in victimology and criminology MF. Iriguayen, author of Moral Harassment.
A distinctive quality of perverse narcissists …
